For example, caning on the rear or flogging on the chest.
If the tail end cannot stand one any longer, the top will start the other.
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Self-bondage is also notably risky: see the safety notes below.
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by the other, who then sexually stimulates the confined partner at will by masturbation, oral sex, a vibrator or intercourse.
Restraints can be used for purposes other than sexual foreplay.
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