Dangers of dating a muslim man
However, if you are giving in to your urges and satisfying your physical desires, I suggest you fasten your seat belt before continuing to read some of the verses I come cross in the Qur’an.
There are clear verses in the Qur’an against the natural results of dating; from the seemingly innocent kiss to the more obvious.
If you feel you can date someone without the physical stuff, you gotta be real with yourself.
For some, there may be a sincere intention to have only a platonic social interaction with a person.
(See: The Truth about Why Women and Men can't be "Just Friends" [VIDEO])There are some folks out there who date but due to factors like religion, trust, outrage from parents etc. That may be admirable to some extent but Lord knows there's this lingering feeling deep inside the psyche; the growing desire for contact and romance.
When that's the issue, you should ask yourself one question: "What's the point of winning the battles of avoiding the physical stuff while your soul is losing the war from all the energy and effort that's being drained away and spent? You either remove yourself from the situation or end the guilt and get married.
“These professional black women want to marry these polygamous men because these are the only good men they can find.” Bennion and other academics studying polygamy in the U. say that the practice is flourishing in the black Muslim community because of the lack of “marriageable men” in the African-American community.I hate to take something from a song, much less a Beyonce song but in this case, "If you want it, then you better put a ring on it." (Of course when it comes to Muslims, you don't need a ring to get married but you get my point.)Basically, Dating makes you forget about Allah (obeying him, doing the right thing).The daily challenge of obeying Allah and doing the right thing becomes harder and less active in your mind as you become increasingly attracted to your mate with your thoughts, emotions, and time. Believe me, I have spent many nights racking my brain trying to figure this one out for myself back in my teenage years.