Daughters and dating
Keep in mind that was after multiple reminders to "wrap it up", and at our house you get a warning first, then there is a consequence if you don't follow through.Anyway, we learned from d/d that the young man intends to move to another state in the fall to attend a special trade school.
After everyone left, I went to my d/d's room to say goodnight, and she wasn't there. Finally located her outside in the dark, in her pjs with the young man. She simply gave us a blank expression and did not respond to the conversation. On the one hand, I have always believed that if you hold the reins too tightly, you are making a mistake.I'm hopeful that we'll find her again, but worried about what choices she is going to make in the process. I was 16 and the guy I was seeing was 21 and when my mother and father found out about they were strictly against it.I then started to leave school to see him, and i would leave out the house after they went to sleep to see him.She told us that she had decided they should just be friends since he is leaving to move out of state to try to manipulate us into allowing them to go out.